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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 03:52

How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Ask yourself:

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

That's it for today.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Why is every human messed up in some way?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do so many people like life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Does not procrastinate.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: